Tuesday,
December 17, 2019
These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full. John 15:11
These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full. John 15:11
People often think of what makes
them happy when you mention joy. True
joy is not about what makes us happy at all.
True joy comes from the inside and has nothing to do with emotions or
circumstances. Joy cannot be given or
taken from us. It is born in our hearts
and nothing can steal it - not people or circumstances - unless we let them.
Some
definitions of Joy are:
the
emotion of great delight or happiness caused by something exceptionally good or
satisfying; keen pleasure; elation; caused by over all contentment, soul
satisfying incidents.
Joy is a state of being. Happiness is temporal and conditional. Happiness is an
emotion dependent on personal feelings. Joy is the unconditional state of mind
that accompanies fellowship with God. It
is characterized by great wellbeing.
It is far better to seek "joy"
as opposed to happiness. Joy is related
to happiness, but it is a deeper experience. In the search for happiness we usually focus on ourselves, but joy moves us out of self-centered
preoccupation and towards focus on others. Joy is an experience which connects us to that
which is "Greater" than we are.
The Greek word for 'joy' is derived
from the Greek word for 'grace.' This is important to note, for it tells us
categorically that joy comes from the
grace of God. This means 'joy' isn't a human-based happiness that comes and
goes. Rather, true 'joy' is divine in
origin. It is a Spirit-given expression
that flourishes best in hard times. But the fruit of
the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. (Galatians
5:22-23)
Joy
is not dependent on circumstances.
For most people happiness is possible, but it’s also fickle, shallow, and fleeting. As the Word itself implies, happiness is associated with happenings, happenstance, luck, and fortune. If circumstances are favorable, you are happy; if not, you’re unhappy. Christian joy, however, is directly related to God and is the firm confidence that all is well, regardless of your circumstances. In Philippians 3:1 Paul says, “Rejoice in the Lord.” The Lord is both the source and object of Christian joy. Knowing Him brings joy that transcends temporal circumstances. Obeying Him brings peace and assurance. If we are willing to give up the search for happiness, (self) we may find true joy.
For most people happiness is possible, but it’s also fickle, shallow, and fleeting. As the Word itself implies, happiness is associated with happenings, happenstance, luck, and fortune. If circumstances are favorable, you are happy; if not, you’re unhappy. Christian joy, however, is directly related to God and is the firm confidence that all is well, regardless of your circumstances. In Philippians 3:1 Paul says, “Rejoice in the Lord.” The Lord is both the source and object of Christian joy. Knowing Him brings joy that transcends temporal circumstances. Obeying Him brings peace and assurance. If we are willing to give up the search for happiness, (self) we may find true joy.
This time of year it is especially easy
to make the joy we have completely dependent on circumstances such as who can
and can’t come home for Christmas, how much we get, how much we can give, if
the decorations look perfect or if the ham is moist. Focusing on all the things
of Christmas will cause us to miss the true message of Christmas – the King in
the manger who brings true joy.