I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the Lord
in the land of the living! Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart
take courage; wait for the Lord! Psalm 27:13-14
There are those moments in life when silence is golden. Then there are those moments in life when
silence is deafening, when silence is maddening, when silence is
excruciating. Those moments come when we
are seeking God earnestly with all our heart and get nothing in return. Your heart is right, your prayers are right
on and you are on your knees pleading for His guidance, but still you do not
feel the presence of God, you do not sense His direction and you do not even
feel like He cares about you.
Don’t despair or give up on God. He is
there, even when it feels like he isn’t. He loves you and knows what is best,
especially when you don’t. If He doesn’t
answer you as quickly as you think He should, maybe He has a reason. Maybe He is working on something or
someone. His time is not our time and
when the silence is deafening, listen harder.
It is coming eventually. Be sure
you are listening to the right voice.
We all have friends who love us so much they want to fix our lives for
us. Their answer may not be the answer
God has for you. It may be
Biblical. It may be good, solid, sound
Christian advice but still not be what God wants you to do in a particular
situation. You have to discern. You have to keep seeking and keep your focus
on God and what He leads you to do.
Study the Bible, pray and listen.
He Speaks
You will hear God speaking to you in that still, small voice that
prompts you in your spirit. But, how do you know it is God who is speaking to
you? God has given us some direction as to how we can determine His voice from
any others we may hear which may come from well meaning friends who love
us. These confirmations will strengthen
our faith and enable us to hear God more clearly as we grow in our faith.
How do you know God is
speaking to you? - The Tests
The first test is the confirmation of God's written Word - the Bible. Everything that God says will agree with His written Word. He will never tell you to sin or go against a teaching in His Word. This simple test can clarify many "messages." We must, however, be careful not to read the written Word with any preconceived ideas of what it is saying.
The first test is the confirmation of God's written Word - the Bible. Everything that God says will agree with His written Word. He will never tell you to sin or go against a teaching in His Word. This simple test can clarify many "messages." We must, however, be careful not to read the written Word with any preconceived ideas of what it is saying.
The second test is the
confirmation of godly counsel. God has placed people in our lives to help us to hear His voice. These
people may include pastors, teachers, parents, and godly friends. In most
cases, they will confirm the voice of God to you and help you to see His plan.
This is not to say that you should rely on them solely. These people are human
and can have their own feelings and fears distort their objectivity. However,
they can be a very valuable source of confirmation when you are uncertain of
God's voice.
The third test is the
confirmation through circumstances. Christians can carefully study their situation for indications of God's
will. Some Christians have called this the Gideon method or "putting out
the fleece." When God told Gideon that he was to lead Israel into battle
against their enemies, Gideon put a fleece out on the ground in order to
receive a sign that God was really speaking to him. If you feel led to use this
test, come to God with a humble attitude and not a spirit of testing Him. Pray
for God to reveal His will and carefully watch the circumstances that relate to
that decision.
Wait expectantly with great
anticipation. He will be faithful. The answer is coming. Be ready to accept the
answer he gives you. Be open to His guidance.
Accept His love and perfect will for your life.
But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint. Isaiah 40:31