Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all
things, endures all things. Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13:7-8a
Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to
the eye. – H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
The
verses above could be translated as:
Love
protects, shields, guards, covers, conceals, and safeguards people from
exposure.
Love
strains forward with all its might to believe the very best in every situation.
Love
always expects and anticipates the best in others and the best for others.
Love never quits, never surrenders, and never gives up. Real love never quits because it doesn’t know how to quit.
Love never quits, never surrenders, and never gives up. Real love never quits because it doesn’t know how to quit.
Love
will enable us to stand...regardless.
Love
believes that circumstances or situations can improve. That is also the very nature of hope. That hope is based on the conviction that God
is going to be with us, whatever the hardships of life. That hope will see us through. You see here the connection between faith,
hope, and love. Faith is the idea that
we believe that God does love us to the point that we risk our lives, invest
our lives in that faith. That faith
leads us to view the hardships of life, not with cynicism but with the
conviction that God is always going to be with us. He affirms, “I will never leave you. I will never forsake you.” Because of our faith and hope, we have a
response of love to other people. We
have a desire to help, to include, and affirm others.
When
we love someone, even if we can see the bad, we often choose to believe it is
not there and only see the good. We choose to believe, hope, endure, to never
give up. If you have loved ones in your
life in the midst of major sin, and you are not the most loving person they
know, then you are doing something wrong.
That doesn’t mean condoning their sin, that means loving them and not
their sin. It means loving them through
this season of rebellion. It means
hoping and believing that the good you have seen will eventually win out. Sometimes all the motivation people need is
someone who believes in them. Paul gives
us his thirteenth point about love when he says that love “…hopeth all
things….” The Greek word for “hopeth” is the word elpidzo, which depicts not only a hope, but an expectation of good things. This means that rather than expecting
failure or a bad result in someone’s life, the agape love of God always expects
the best in someone else. It not only expects it, but it is filled with an
anticipation to see the outcome of God’s hand in someone’s life.
Of
course everyone definitely needs the love of God, but the love of a family and/or
close friend is also important. When you feel like you are being attacked on
every front but you know there is someone who loves you and believes in you no
matter what, you can endure any storm.
If you don’t have someone one that loves you that unconditionally, it is
absolutely the loneliest feeling in the world.
Everyone needs the unconditional love of someone. God designed us to need to be loved and He
created love. He created families and
His plan is for us to love and support each other. His plan is for us to hope, believe, endure, and
never give up. He never gives up on
us.
Now,
at this point in my life, love means something different to me. It is not fluffy and romantic. It is not dreamy and fairy-tale
material. It is real. It is hard.
But it is worth it. And the only way I endure often is through hope and
believing by faith that God, the author of my life and lover of my soul, has
got this.
Scripture to Claim:
But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13